We are in a loop of meaning making in our human experience. An event produces thoughts and a label of meaning, which when connected with emotionally driven memory recall, the behaviour we choose is quite limited. From the chosen behaviour we have results and consequent events. To change our behaviour, we need to challenge the labels of meaning. We need to challenge our thoughts and perceptions of the world. We can only behave from the choices we have, when we create new choices of behaviour, and behave differently, life events will change accordingly.