Volker Balleuder and Michael Millward discuss a Japanese proverb about accepting that things don’t always go the way we want them to; that we all have bad days, but even on the worst days we have to remember that we all have the resilience to make those days better, to learn and to build a better future.During their conversation Volker and Michael discuss how people create bad experiences by repeatedly making the same bad choice and how to cut that cycle.They also explore the logic of the proverb and compare it to quotations about dealing with adversity from Martin Luther, and Scarlett O’Hara.